The Wave

Something I would like to share.

Not sure if you guys join dating/buddy sites or whatever you call it. I noticed some sort of trend in terms of responses.

When you first join, responses are rather frequent being the newbie and all, after a while things slow down gradually and eventually it reaches a silent point. Sometimes I log in several times a day just to check if there are new messages or if anyone has viewed my profile. Yeah it's pathetic right LOL.

After that initial wave, responses come in bunches. Some days there's nothing, then some days there are several approaches! I joined 2 sites, so it can get quite messy when I'm getting on with a few guys at the same time. I tend to forget certain things.

But those are what I call lucky days. Rare in fact. Most days it's nothing. It can make you feel quite low. Sometimes I wonder how I can enhance my profile, like posting naughty pictures or notes. But that's not really being yourself right, it's like pretending or exaggerating just to seek attention. A profile should reflect who you are in a sincere manner.

It's so hard to find a man with substance. Maybe I'm looking at the wrong place. Almost every guy starts their conversation indicating desire for sex. OK maybe some start with a brief intro and small talk then ask for sex. Sometimes I entertain them when I'm horny but in the long run I know this is totally not what I want.

Even making genuine friends from these sites is hard. Most come and go. Some disappear when they know there's not gonna be any action, some disappear after one conversation. OK but there are a few nice people I don't regret meeting. Really helped me understand the gay world better.

And FYI regarding the previous post I was unsuccessful at going wild LOL. At that time I was in the process of meeting several guys for you-know-what, but somehow they all got turned down one way or another. I just didn't want to anymore.

Maybe I want to stay a good boy for now.
But if a nice, hot guy comes along then I won't hesitate to unleash the animal in me that's just dying to come out. Gonna drive him nuts. ;)