They're Not That Hot

WARNING: This is a super bitching post.

So remember I was talking about a pool party that I saw on Facebook? Well you can check out the page here:
http://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Official-Rainbow-Weekend-Party-Community/118895731512939

It's a public page so anyone can view it, so it's not like I'm revealing some big secret.

Anyway I noticed some of these hotties at the gym I go to....
Even before I saw the pics I've consistently seen 2 of the guys on Mondays.

Then I saw another 3 today.

And guess what? They are NOT as hot as I thought they would be.
Haha I guess pictures and fb profiles can be deceiving... I mean for a pool party, when you see a bunch of guys posing shirtless together, they all tend to look hot, but when you break it down and REALLY look at them individually in real life, you will find that they are just regular people. I learned this from watching How I Met Your Mother when Barney illustrated the same example on a group of chicks at the bar hahaha. I mean, I'm not saying these guys are ugly, just that there's nothing special about them.

One of those guys was actually really short, which you wouldn't know from his fb profile. I looked like the Eiffel tower / supermodel on heels when I walked past him haha! And I'm not even that tall, just 171. Also the muscles you see in pics, somehow they look less impressive in real life.
Another thing that put me off was how vain they were. OK I know I'm vain too, but you should have seen the way they were looking at themselves shamelessly in the changing room mirror... and for so long LOL! I could have showered and got dressed in the time they spend in front of the mirror admiring their body and playing with their hair.

Unfortunately I also over heard some of their conversation in Cantonese, which I happen to understand by the way. Just talking about random, shallow stuff which made me feel so much better about myself. I know you cannot judge a person by the small talk they have with their mates in the gym, but man do I feel like I've got so much more going on in the brains department.

OK I know this post is sounding very hypercritical and bitchy. I apologize for it if I've offended any hunks out there. I know this is a generalization and not all of you are like that... just so happens that I ran into the stereotypical ones today.

My real point of posting this is to send out the message that you don't need to feel jealous or think less of yourself by comparing to the "hot" people you see, coz if you wanna be hot like them, you just need to work hard at the gym and maybe dress and groom yourself a little better. More importantly is your character and how you carry yourself, and how you treat others, because that's something that no amount of vanity can compensate for!! :)

XOXO