Question: Would you rather date....
1. Someone who makes you feel like you're not good enough for him
OR
2. Someone who you think you're better than (ie you're probably reaching down for him)
No judgments, no right or wrong. Just tell me what you would prefer.
I find myself generally falling for guys that make me feel like shit, which lowers my self esteem like it doesn't even exist. I then think what's wrong with me, am I not good enough for you, why would you even like someone like me, and my flaws become magnified like a thousand times, etc....
As for the guys that I think I'm too good for, the inner bitch in me just cuts them down to pieces from the get go. They don't even stand a chance in my consideration. I hate that I'm so superficial.... I can't accept someone who I think doesn't deserve me, but at the same time I want to be with someone whom I don't deserve.......
Dilemma of the night LOL....
Night nights,
XOXO
honestly, I would wanna date my twin brother if I have one lol. But between the 2 prolly number 2.
ReplyDeleteWow really? I honestly couldn't see myself dating myself, or someone that was like me... I mean, I do love myself, but I don't think I could ever fall in love with someone that looks like me, or behaves like me, or thinks like me... Seriously, NO... hahahaha :P
DeleteGenerally, it would be No. 1 but ideally I would prefer No. 2.
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Hmmm why ideally no.2? Wouldn't that make you feel like you're in some ways more superior than your other half? And you might get that feeling that you deserve someone better, or there's going to be better guys out there....
Deletenone...i prefer someone with high intellect...better if that person is smarter than me:D
ReplyDeleteHaha but if that someone is smarter than you... it also means he is in some ways better than you right? So you would rather go for someone that makes you feel not so good about yourself? :P
Deletelol, remember talking about this before.. But generally i guess my ideal is number 1 but i'm kinda in two now.. lol..
ReplyDeleteAnyways, read that the best is if both guys are number 1. =D
haha it's really hard.... or not really possible for both guys to be number 1... Even if both guys are really awesome and hot and smart, one person will somehow feel he is better than the other...
DeleteI think I think too much LOL :P