Arabian Nights!

OK I'm done with all the serious posts for now... it's time to get petty and gush about hot guys again!!

There's this guy that I noticed since I joined this gym, he was there right from the start, but I didn't pay too much attention on him, NOT because he's unattractive, but because he has never looked at me and gave eye contact until today. Forget about Snow for now, he clearly doesn't know I exist.

I'm not quite sure what race or country he's from, but would it be offensive if I say Middle Eastern? Or is it Arabian or Persian? Forgive me for lacking in understanding of the technicalities or nomenclature of people from that part of the world. It's just like some people think it's offensive to say Black people, and perhaps the more appropriate term is African American. So would anyone like to suggest what is the respectful way of addressing our friends up North?

OK.... technicalities aside, let's just focus on this guy! Damn he's hot... the only negative point is that he's not as tall.... recently I've been bitching about height with my Nun sister hahaha and how I don't find guys that are shorter than me be considered manly (in my eyes). OK back to the hottie, so he's not the most vertically gifted, maybe just a tad shorter than me, but he makes up for it with a toned upper body! gosh I know I'm superficial, but we're in eye candy territory :P

And unlike the stereotypical guys from his home, he wasn't hairy at all! Yes, I totally checked him out in the locker room! The most magical thing happened today: TIMING! Incredible how a series of events when timed correctly can just make you notice someone! We both finished our workout at the same time, stripped to towel at the same time, went to shower (separate stalls!) at the same time, I came out like seconds before him, we both got dressed in the same time, and I walked out of the locker room with him tailing right behind me!! The best part? On my way out, there was this large mirror on the wall, so I stopped to fix my hair for a quick second and he was looking at me in the mirror... Not direct eye contact, but eye-mirror-eye contact hahaha!! BAM!!! Pretty sure he's gay based on the colourful and bright underwear that I saw him put on! The combo of (Underwear + gym) is such a give away of sexuality.

Haha ok I know this means nothing, I don't have a crush on him yet, but damn now I just want to see him in his underwear more often!! TIMING hahahaha :P

It doesn't take a genius to figure out my choice of song right?
Arabian -> Aladdin -> Genie -> Lamp -> Christina Aguilera -> RUB ME THE RIGHT WAY honey ;)


P.S. Watch the video of Demi Lovato above! She's just so incredible, I love how she sings with so much emotion, it makes me wonder who she's thinking of when singing this song... If I were straight, she would totally be the celeb that I would have a major crush on! :)

Safe Sex: Know your stuff

So this post is long overdue. I mentioned I was going to write about safe sex practices, intended for our younger or perhaps relatively uninformed or inexperienced readers that may or may not be taking their first step into.....the joy ride hahaha! I say there's no harm in banging it out if you do it the right way, because you are not really a grown man until you have sex and make that physical connection with another person.

Obviously I'm not the most informed, I'm sure there are many (older :P) bloggers that know way more than me. But I will just share some of my personal precautions.

Oh before that, if you want to know the complete info, these links are helpful:
http://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/bhcv2/bhcarticles.nsf/pages/HIV_and_gay_men_safe_sex
http://www.managingdesire.org/GaySexWithoutRegret.html

OK, personally I have 3 golden rules that I always repeat to myself (like a mantra) before going to saunas, massages or any date:
1. No condom = no fuck 
2. A dick that has been inside the ass doesn't go into the mouth (even if a condom was used)
3. Don't let him cum inside my mouth

Hahaha I know I know, you may think these rules take the fun and spontaneity out of sex... because sometimes when you're so into it, you tend to let go of all your inhibitions... But I'm damn firm about it. Prior to sex, I let the guy know that he is not allowed to cum inside my mouth, or my face for that matter. It's always neck down for me LOL, simply because it's safer. You may have small open wounds in your mouth from vigorous brushing, or bleeding gums. If he doesn't comply, then well...... I'm sure he wouldn't risk it considering his most prized possession is in the clutches of my jaws. ;)

Rule no.2 is really a hygiene issue for me. That is why oral sex always precedes anal sex. Call me old fashioned, and sticking to routine, but I just don't fancy sucking on his dick when it has been poking way up my anus. The routine is pretty standard, and all guys that I've been with seem to follow the pattern without me asking... it's something like touching - kissing - clothes off - touching - stroking - sucking - licking - oral - maybe more sucking/licking/touching/groping etc - then once it reaches the anal stage, it usually ends with orgasm. From my experiences, tops usually like to cum outside on you and make a mess, which is actually safer compared to cumming inside the ass, because condoms may not be 100% reliable. Make sure that if he cums on any part of your body, that there are no wounds / broken skin that could lead to exposure.

Rule no. 1 is the MOST IMPORTANT rule of ALL TIME. Seriously, there's absolutely no compromise. I'm proud to say that I've NEVER been fucked bare backed. There was this 1 time I almost fell into the trap of a smooth talking and very insistent hunk, that kept saying how much he liked my body and wanted to fuck me, and promised he wouldn't cum inside me. He was hot, but that only made me want to play safe EVEN MORE, because god knows how many asses that cock has seen. So, in the end he finally gave up and grabbed a condom.
To all bottoms out there, trust me when I say you need to hold your ground, because when you two are in a naked pre-sex situation, a horny Top will eventually give in to your request in the end, because let's face it... he is a horny pervert and will not let go of that opportunity to fuck you right there and then, when you have presented yourself to him like a delicious and sumptuous platter.
And dear readers, if you are a Top, please don't be a jerk and just put on a freaking condom, because you are protecting yourself too! Honestly if you get used to the habit of using condoms right from the start, then you won't find it unpleasurable. I actually think condoms are sexy LOL.

So these are my 3 golden rules. Did I forget to mention anything important? Feel free to mention it here!! Thanks and play safe guys!!

XOXO

My 3 Fashion Must Haves

Haha since I'm still on a fashion high after the recent h&m launch, I would like to share with you the 3 most important things I think are absolute fashion essentials for any men. These items will be based on my personal style, which is more street, and hence I will not cover high end branded stuff or very formal things like suits (even though every man should have one), etc.... This is more of a everyday style type of thing :P

1. SUNGLASSES 
Literally man's best friend. Life saver. Has a more functional purpose than anything else in my wardrobe. Protection from the Sun, UV rays, dust from entering the eyes. When I drive I gotta put my shades on, otherwise it's too hard to see with the glare. Also your best friend when you're out on a sunny day. When you're feeling lazy and don't look as good as you normally do, there's nothing better than to hide behind a pair of sunglasses when you need to get out of the house to run errands. Some people like to dress up for flights, but I do the exact opposite, especially on long flights. I tend to board the plane bare faced and without any wax on my hair with the intention to sleep.... coz if you leave makeup on for too long your skin will breakout. Therefore, when you look super un-glamarous with oily skin and ugly hair once you reach the airport, putting the shades on while working your way through the crowd will spare you any embarrassment! :)
Sunglasses are not necessarily expensive, you just need to look around. I like BIG bug-eyed lenses (think Powerpuff girls lol). Find one with the lens shape that suits your face, and make sure it's not too heavy because it will be uncomfortable when it's pressing against the nose bridge.

2. JEANS!
Love it or hate it, denim is simply too iconic to ignore. Everyone should invest in at least 1 pair of great (perhaps pricey) jeans. It may take some time to find, because no two pairs are exactly the same in terms of fit, pattern and cutting, even if they are from the same brand and line. Therefore you really need to spend time trying many pairs on. As a general rule, I would say go for straight cut jeans, because they are suitable for most people, not to mention most comfortable. Skinny jeans or those super skin tight ones are only meant for people with skinny thighs and calves (like me!), so it should be avoided by our bulkier friends, unless you want to look like a bloated sausage casing. Colour wise, I think it's really dependent on your taste.. personally I like the classic dark blue that is slightly bleached looking (not even tone), and shades of black/grey denim is also very sexy. Oh and I DON'T think jeans with intentional holes are 'in' anymore, it's cheap and cheesy. Just my opinion.
Speaking of denim, I must point out that denim should only be worn on the lower body, and not upper. Denim jackets are ridiculously tacky, so if you still have yours from the 90s (or even longer ago), then perhaps it's time to reconsider. I wouldn't throw or give it away for sentimental reasons, but probably wouldn't wear it out either.

3. LEATHER SHOES
Okay I know leather shoes are more towards formal / work wear, but I just can't resist some nice leather! Every man needs some leather! :P Leather shoes are not the cheapest, and they require consistent care and maintenance such as polishing and being careful not to scratch it when worn in order to have a long life. Whether you're going for a formal event, or just want to sharpen up your smart casual look, a good pair of leather (I like black) goes a long way. I sometimes even wear it with jeans lol. Personally I'm not very good at picking formal shoes, still lack experience in this division... when I go into a store and see a sea of leather, after a while they all just look kind of the same to me. I guess the obvious things are like the shape of the tip, whether you prefer a rounder, squarish, or sharp pointy look. I personally don't like the pointy looking ones. Ultimately, I think the 2 most important criteria for formal shoe hunting is BUDGET and COMFORT.   


Hehe I would like to know what you think of my list. I'm no fashion expert, but I'm very much fashion conscious. Also, PLEASE SHARE with us the 3 most important things in your wardrobe! This should be fun!! :)

XOXO

Cold as Snow

Haha so instead of calling familiar fair skin guy from the gym as Snow White, let's just stick with Snow because it's less emasculating.

I went to the gym on Wednesday hoping to see him again. I was there by 7 but he was no where to be seen. Feeling a little disappointed I proceeded to the treadmill. When I was done, I headed back to the locker room to get my bottle, and right at the entrance as I was walking in, he came out!

He was smiling for some reason, not at me, because he was already smiling as he was walking out, it just melted my heart into a puddle. Wearing a tight purple shirt that showed off his bulging muscles, it made me want to sigh in delight like a fan girl LOL. He's easily one of the hottest guys at the gym that night.

Unfortunately it was time for class so I went into the studio, and he was out doing weights. Every now and then I would glance out the studio's glass wall to see what he was doing.... but he wasn't looking in..... When class was done, I couldn't find him outside so I went into the locker room. He had already showered and was packing to leave. Bummer...... But in that second when I walked past him, he looked at me again. Eye contact, brief but sweet. (Vincent, this is another sign of gayness you can add to the list: A guy that looks at all the other guys that goes in and out of the locker room. :P)

So, conclusion is.... I'm quite sure he's gay, but he doesn't seem interested in me at all. Oh well........ he's too hot and muscular and cute and fair skinned for me anyway......

Time to sulk in a corner for a while, then move on hahaha. Hope to see him at the gym again though :P

XOXO   

H&M!!!!!!!!!

Like a magical signal had been emitted from the heart of Bukit Bintang, all (ok fine, most) gays and fashionistas flocked towards this signal in synchrony... otherwise known as the grand opening of H&M in Malaysia!! And like a droid, I found myself succumbing to materialistic temptation and waiting in line outside the store like all the other eager shoppers to be among the first day's batch of Malaysians and tourists to browse through the store! I wonder if anyone of you spotted me? I was in huge shades and a blue and black thin stripped T-shirt looking oh so gay LOL.

It's not really about buying and spending excessively because I have to watch my wallet, but it was more about the excitement of seeing the collection and imagery. The store was beautiful and bright, the clothes were plentiful. And I gotta say, H&M Malaysia is actually better than H&M Singapore in terms of number of choices (Men's department lah, not sure about Ladies coz I didn't go there), I felt like there was more stuff here. But not everything is suited to my taste, and to be honest the price of some items were actually still not cheap, even though H&M is supposed to be relatively more affordable than other high end stuff. But that didn't stop me from buying a casual T-shirt and a slightly more formal buttoned long sleeve shirt! :D

The best part of being at H&M? The crowd haha!! If you just look around the men's floor, it is so obvious that the number of gays outnumber the straights. OK maybe some are metrosexuals, but they still make excellent eye candy. And so many guys were eyeing me, including a muscular hunk that was just a few people ahead of me in the line to the fitting room, he kept turning back to look at me *blush*! I had just as much fun checking out the guys as I did checking out the clothes.

I know some of you will think, sigh it's just all hype and stuff, H&M is so overrated etc, but I bet that you too will be visiting the store some time this year! Otherwise you're just an outdated turtle ;) 

XOXO

New Gym, but Same Hottie!!

Woooooohhh some spice has just been brought back into my life!! :)

As I've mentioned before, I've changed to a different gym last month. Contemplated for quite a while before I made the move, but in the end I think I made the right choice. The staff here is much friendlier, the equipment range is wider (though still not really enough in quantity because the number of members is shooting up, especially after work hours), better security with the wrist band magnetic locker system, free hot beverages and computers to surf the net while letting the muscles rest a bit before you torture them again haha! Oh yeah and the price is cheaper! :)

The cons would probably be not as many classes as the previous gym, and no free towel service. But the management promised to bring in more classes as they expand and find out what the members want. What I like about this company is that they are very customer oriented, at least so far they are because they are new in the market and keen to impress :P

NOW LET'S TALK ABOUT THE CROWD, because that's probably all you readers care about right!!!
And by crowd, I mean the GUYS (Duhhh haha). Initially I didn't see many when the gym first opened, but gradually more and more yummies appeared. I noticed it's quite a young crowd, like high school boys coming in groups, quite annoying at times because they come in large gangs and hog the equipment and talk really loudly like they own the place, but pretty hot nevertheless. I think these are like the jocks of their schools.... for them to start gymming that early and being so conscious about muscles and appearance is pretty cool actually. I have a feeling some are Plu, though can't really tell because they are so young (I sound old...). And my radar is unreliable.

Also pretty international compared to the previous gym. Quite a few Middle Eastern guys, hairy at all the right places hahaha... And today I saw a couple of Caucasians too. So far majority of the crowd look pretty fit. Quite a number of aunties too, but they mostly do milder cardio stuff so I won't need to compete with them for the machines and equipment :P

Today I saw this super cute hot guy with fair skin like Snow White that was from my previous gym!!! According to Danny quite a few members have shifted to this gym, so I guess I shouldn't be surprised haha! He definitely noticed me, and probably remembers me because I used to check him out and give long stares at the old gym LOL. He looks buffer now. And I saw him shirtless draped in a towel!! Definitely getting a Plu vibe, because he was chatting with 2 younger friends in the locker room about partying, and those friends DEFINITELY SCREAM GAY by the way they dress and look! But I'm soooo out of my game, I don't really know what to do to get his attention, so I decided to just forget about it LOL. It's easier that way *yawns like old, retired player on a lazy chair*

But today he definitely noticed me, probably coz I looked familiar. Let's see if I run into him again.

I kind of wanna find out his name so that I can stalk his fb profile. I happen to be damn good at hunting people down on the Internet. Ohhh NO.... I'm getting all crazy again!! Don't worry, I'm much more mature now *cough cough*

XOXO

What Happens In Vegas,......

Hey guys I'm home!!!

I spent so much time away that when I reached home it felt weird, like even parts of my room didn't seem familiar LOL, as if I've forgotten where I was and what my life used to be. Haha thank goodness that weirdness has passed and I've settled back to my Malaysian identity again. I MISSED the FOOD here so so much!!

It has been awesome breaking away from stagnant routines and living differently, even if it were only for a short while. Will not disclose exactly where I went to (note: Not Vegas) because I'm still paranoid that some of you will figure out who I really am haha.... but I think some of you will know la, or chat me up on fb if you want ;)

I know I said I was gonna stay away from saunas and sex for a while, but I couldn't resist checking out the gay scene when in a foreign country.... I mean which gay guy wouldn't want to check out the local meat men right?

So I did some research and found 2 saunas in my area, so I paid a visit to both haha. The first place I went to provided an INTERESTING experience, and by interesting, I mean totally horrifying. The facilities were decent, with jacuzzi, glory holes and S&M room and the place was much more spacious than Malaysian saunas, but I went at a wrong time. Saunas there typically open from 11am till late night, and I saw on their website that lunch time had a good crowd, so that was exactly when I visited the place. Bad decision!! :O :O :O
Turns out the lunch crowd was 98% senior citizens, and I made up the remaining 2% hahahaha.. And by SENIOR, I mean old enough to be my grandfather. Picture old, chubby white haired men with saggy skin and wrinkles over their face. To make things worse, it was the NUDE DAY, so towels had to be over the shoulders.... I was so put off I wasn't even close to getting hard. But since I had already paid to enter, I actually stayed there for like 2 hours haha, just watching porn in the video lounge and hoping someone younger would show up (didn't happen LOL). Several of these gentlemen actually came up to me and asked if they could suck me off, and in my head I was like WHOA*#&@*$^*@#@*&$, but because they were soooo senior I had to politely turn off their offer. @_@

After being severely traumatized, I turned to Jack'd for guys that were more of my taste. Not that many guys on Jack'd, and Asians are a minority here.... so we are not exactly fancied in general. Only locals with an acquired taste would seek Asians. And I met up with one such 28 year old that was very much in my liking! Went to his apartment in the heart of the city and did the deed. My very first taste of Caucasian meat. And I gotta say, after seeing several hard dicks in saunas throughout my trip here, I can say Caucasians are bigger than Asians, or Malaysians from my experience. I know that's generalization, but based on what I saw, it's true!!

After this guy, there wasn't really any other decent guy that messaged me on Jack'd. Actually most of the messages I got were from other Asians staying there. And there was this 1 guy, a China native studying there that really caught my eye. He had the typical charming, leng zhai look, definitely not lala type... he looked mature and sexy, but still had this youthfulness about him. And he was kind of a hipster. Not the typical China man, he conversed in decent English and had traveled to US and Europe. Obviously from a wealthy family. And I later found out he's the type that likes to wear all those high end fashion branded stuff, which put me off a little because I find that generally guys that dress so preppy and over the top are superficial and appear way too gay (or bottomish).
But the conversations we had were so nice that I was willing to look past his wardrobe. FYI we didn't meet for sex. Every now and then you find someone on Jack'd that's worth more than sex. Or so I thought. I became pretty emotionally invested in him, but unfortunately after a few days of whatsapping he started to become cold, ie the replies were often delayed and short, so I already got the hint that he was no longer interested in me. Mehhhh. This is why I hate love and relationships, and getting all mushy and clingy and hopeful......

But deep down I should have known that no good would come out of it. I mean, I was only in that country for a holiday, pretty soon I would return to Malaysia, then what? There's no way a relationship could start from such a short exposure period. Maybe it was being lonely in a foreign country that made me uncharacteristically hopeful and open to the idea of love. Well, I'm Wide Awake now hahaha.

Oh yeah, so there was this 2nd sauna that I checked out on a Sunday, which is the busiest day of the week. And thank god, finally the crowd was much more young and sexy, I was ogling at all the hot bods!! This place also had a jacuzzi and a SWIMMING POOL! Obviously I didn't get into any of the pools in fear of the cleanliness and picking up some infection. Unfortunately Asians are also the minorities at saunas, so I wasn't really catching a lot of bait. It took me a while to observe and adjust to the etiquette there, and eventually I landed a decent guy. Apparently many guys that go to saunas in this country are not fully gay, in fact these venues are considered a place where men have sex with like minded men, rather than being labelled as a gay sauna. So this guy that I was with, I got the vibe that he wasn't comfortable being gay, because he said he was really horny and wanted me to suck him off, which he then cummed quickly, thanked me and left before I even started on myself. He didn't wanted to suck or even touch my junk haha. Pretty lackluster that I had to finish by myself with his load of cum over my chest. But yeah, Caucasian sausages definitely provide a mouthful haha!

I'm glad I had a slice of the local PLU culture while being there. Before coming home, I even bought a GAY magazine with lots of pictures as a souvenir. Over there, these adult magazines are displayed publicly and sold in all major book and news stores, which I think is so open and cool.

So that wraps up my holiday report, hope you enjoyed it ;)

XOXO