Interesting: Poppers & Edging

Remember I talked about being offered poppers by a guy in Absolute?
Well, just days after I returned home I got a message on Grindr (yes, I still log in there occasionally just for fun). Jack'd is the new Grindr anyway haha, but yeah I thought this was interesting...

I should have asked how much he was selling it for just for fun... Didn't know there are so many brands, have you guys ever heard of or tried any of these? Is it safe to consume, or are there any side effects or long term consequences on health?
What is it supposed to do... like does it make you hard or just high? So many questions :P

Being an adventurous person, I would like to try it at least once just to know what it feels like.... but more research on its safety is definitely required before I do so.


Onto something else I read about recently... actually it was first triggered by LeoNut that shared a very interesting video with me.... haha go watch this and BE AMAZED :P (warning: it's porn)
http://thepenilepoet.blogspot.com.au/2012/03/viva-la-spunktastic.html?zx=3557530f0a6e76d

Freaking amazing right?!?! Needless to say I tried to accomplish this feat myself by saving up my reserves for well over a week, but the end result was no where near that dude. I think it should be every guy's dream to shoot a more explosive load and make a big mess right? :P

The question is.... how do you increase the amount of output?

I read some articles, and one of the techniques to achieve it is by EDGING.
http://dickblogs.com/advice/get-a-bigger-cum-load-edging/

And here are some other tips..
http://dickblogs.com/uncategorized/advice-5-steps-to-a-bigger-jizz-load/


So I guess that's the assignment for this week, or maybe the next couple of weeks hahaha.
Are you game? ;)

XOXO

Cover: Wide Awake

So I recorded this soon after I returned from Singapore.

This song has a strong significance to me, I grew onto it the moment I first heard it.

It's about realization and moving on in your life. The past has a way of clinging on to us, and dragging us down, you may not even know it consciously because you are so consumed by it, but there will come a day when you see it all with a clarity that just enlightens you and sets you free. And that's a personal journey that only you can undertake, because no one else has that power over you.

I dedicate this to those that are either in the wilderness at this point in life, or to those that are already beginning to see a new light and trying to make that next step forward.



For better tomorrows :) 
XOXO

SG: Absolute ~ Final Chapter!!

The epic conclusion to the Dark Knight I mean Singapore sauna TRILOGY! Haha btw Dark Knight Rises was awesome, I so wanna be like Selina Kyle a.k.a. catwoman LOL.

Alright.............
So I made a beeline into the foam and crowd. The foam was generated by this machine placed in the center of the open space, and it periodically releases new foam, so that there's always enough supply to cover everyone! It was building up and getting everywhere... like a monster sludge spilling all over haha.

The foam was interesting. Soap based, very white and quite thick, not as free flowing as I thought it would be. It's not like bubbles, it really was FOAM. I tried blowing the foam off my hand, and it didn't really move LOL, so you have some idea of how viscous it was. The sensation on the body was nice and smooth, not irritating unless you're sensitive to soap I guess.

The atmosphere was like a disco dancefloor with slow song on, coz everyone had to be quiet, and it was slightly dark except for the natural moon light, and everyone was sort of like SLOW DANCING if you know what I mean, like you see couples or groups of people just hugging, swaying and feeling each other. Since the foam was above waist height, wondering hands were going around, you get touched but you don't see the hand behind it haha.

Almost once I got into the foam, I was approached by THE MOST AMAZING guy (period) I've ever met in a sauna. He was cute, slightly shorter than me but fit like S'pore guys, to be honest not the usual type I go for because I prefer macho and hunky more than cute. Cute guys look young, I thought he was 23-24, but he was actually 28. But he had this charisma, and the way he picked me up was so smooth... like almost instantly I felt his charm, and decided that I was his for the night. He stood behind me with arms around me like a couple cuddling. We fondled and flirted in the foam, it felt SO AMAZING... coz the foam smooths things out, so his tool was gliding against me at all the right places!!! Seriously, ultra sensitizing! :P

I think everyone in the foam knew I was a first timer, because I looked so genuinely excited to be in it, I was playing around with the foam like a kid, and I made some comments here and there, and that guy (oh his name is Ken) kept asking me to 'Shhhhh' while smiling cheekily coz apparently I was loud since it was so quiet up there LOL. And every now and then I would freak out when the foam level starts rising because I was wearing contact lenses and didn't want to get it in my eyes hahaha.

We found a corner and chatted about so many things while fondling, I got to know him a little better. And this guy was SUPER HAIRY at selective places, namely the thighs and groin area below the belly button. I had so much fun rubbing his thigh because the bushy hair combined with the foam was SO NICE hahahaha. His tool was so hard ;)

We must have been in the foam for like almost an hour. The atmosphere was romantic, beautiful starry sky, the calmness of the night, and a beautiful view of Chinatown. It was like meant to be, for me to be in Singapore that night, at that moment and meet this guy. I connected with Ken not just on a sexual level, but emotionally and intellectually as well. You don't get this often at places like this. When the crowd started to diminish, we decided to head down as well. Before going downstairs, the staff had to shower us in the rooftop bathroom so that the foam won't be brought down to floors below.

We began searching for a private room. It was HARD because many did not have functioning lights, and you can't do things properly in pitch dark conditions. While waiting for a room, we hung around at the mini gym. He sat on one of the exercise machine's bench and asked me to sit in front of him. Another public cuddling moment for all to see LOL.

Finally got a room. And you can guess what happened next. We went all the way, and I had not released myself for an entire week, so it was pretty explosive. We proceeded to shower together, the sauna even provided mouthwash which I thought was brilliant!! We chatted even in the shower, and as we got dried up parted ways to get dressed since our lockers were at different spots. I took my time, thinking he would come look for me if he was already done... I checked my phone it was almost 10.30pm. I searched around for him but he was no where in sight! While showering he said he had to catch the MRT home, and the last train was like 11 or 11.30.... so maybe he was rushing..... but then why didn't he at least say goodbye first? :(

We had such a good time, I thought he would at least wanna keep in contact. Guess maybe he wasn't that into me? And I know phone numbers are never meant to be exchanged in saunas... some guys go there, do stuff and leave it all behind. I'm usually like that too. But I've not met a guy this incredible in the longest time, so can you imagine how disappointed and emo I was... coz I don't go to Singapore often, and the chances of running into him again is like bordering on zero. :(

And it honestly wasn't about sex, coz frankly it was a little too painful and not as skillful for my liking. It was the emotional connection. I'm not saying I'm already in love with him, but I really enjoyed his company. We probably wouldn't be suited for each other in an actual relationship, but in a way meeting him has sort of opened my mind, and heart, that there are still great guys out there worth spending time with. Guys that I would actually wanna date and try to connect with. In some ways, I'm ready to date again.

From now on, I shall implement what I call the Ken Bench(mark). This will be my internal guy assessment system. Whenever I meet a new guy or if a guy shows interest in me, I shall evaluate whether I would rather date this guy or I would rather date Ken, or at least the memory of what I have of Ken. Haha don't worry Ken is not perfect, there were definitely minor flaws to his character that I picked up on. So If a guy stands equal or greater than his level, then I will give it a go.

Ken Bench will officially be in effect...................... NOW!

XOXO

Singapore: Absolute ~ Part 2

Alright sweeties, back to where we were.... *transports self back to that night*

OK, so it was still early I guess, no clocks around so I lost track of time. After getting familiar with the place, it was time to cruise. I wanted to dive right into the foam party, but no one was in yet... a few naked guys cheekily standing by the bar waiting to go in... everyone was like still shy shy, and downstairs everyone still had their underwear / towel on!

I spent some time at one hot spot, which was the stairs leading to the 2nd floor, because from there you have a clear view of the locker area, so you can see who just came in and watch them stripping off hahaha! As usual, some guys are walkers, they keep on moving around; while the others are the posers, they just find a spot and hang around until something catches their eye. I did a bit of both. During one of the earlier rounds in the dark maze, I was groped by an older guy, it was really crowded so I couldn't exactly escape, then 2 other guys joined in, and I was basically molested by three pairs of hands before I squeezed my way out back to the light haha. So that was the warm up.

At some point there was a loud announcement (Think: speakerphone in school classroom) asking everyone to take their towels off, as it was not allowed anymore. So I got to the locker, took off my underwear & towel. It was nice to see naked guys everywhere haha! Don't think you get such open behaviour in brightly lit rooms in Malaysian saunas.

Once I got naked, I thought of going to the foam, but on my way up, made a last minute decision to make a lap around the 3rd floor first. This was when I was approached by a guy, tall and quite buffed, he sort of hugged me, I told him I wasn't interested... but he was so persistent, and followed me around. As I said, it was hard to tell between the wall and walkway, so I got really cornered, and before I knew it, I ended up walking into a private room and he came in and I was like LOL hahahaha can't believe I just set myself up!! He said he would be quick, so I thought what the hell, he was within my standards anyway.

Won't go into details, but I really like how the private cabins are fully equipped with plentiful condoms, lube and tissue. He was older but nice and lean, I later found out he was 35, an engineer. And even in the dark I could see how chocolate brown his skin was for a Chinese. Like really BROWN. So I asked him and apparently guys there like tanning. I asked him where, and he said at the swimming pool (like duh hahaha). Halfway through, he asked me something... like if I use sjdhfjsdn (can't hear because the music was loud), then he took out some chemical stuff.... I instantly said 'NO, I don't use substances or drugs, sorry.'
He explained that it was a Popper or Dropper (couldn't really hear).. apparently you sniff it and it makes you high, but the effect lasts only a very short duration. I said NO I don't want to try it, and then he was mumbling something, and before I knew it he opened it and was sniffing it up. I could smell it from a distance, kind of like alcohol. We then proceeded, not sure if he was high because I was just laying there thinking I should make my way up to the foam.

And the most hilarious part was even though he was HIGH, he never got hard. I kind of had a feeling that he had already just released himself, so I questioned him... and he said yeah he was planning to leave already, but then he saw me and I was really his type, so..... And he is more of the Chinese speaking type, he even called me 'Bao Bei' (baby in Chinese) which made me shiver a little hahaha.

So since he already released, and it was too early for me to do so, we just chatted for a while, I was asking him about life in Singapore. He was the first Singaporean PLU that I mingled with, so I guess that was kind of special.

We then parted ways, I made my way up to the roof. WOW, by then so many guys were in the foam!! I was like 'Finally, this looks more like a party!'. Everyone had to be quiet because we are not that far up from the busy Chinatown streets below. I could clearly see the people eating at the restaurants below, so those people down there can definitely spot us if we are too loud. But it was dark of course, and they pulled down like this semi-transparent dark blinds, so in a way it was so damn awesome because a bunch of naked guys were in foam in open air just a few stories above one of the busiest streets in Singapore!!

Details on the foam next post ;)

XOXO

Singapore: Absolute ~ Part 1

This particular experience was so long, I've decided to split it into parts for better coverage. And so that I will remember this experience in years to come.
It's actually bittersweet to write this because of something that happened at the end that made me kind of emo... but we'll get to that.

So Absolute is one of the premier saunas in merlion land. Prior to heading down I did some research, and found on a forum some PLU stated that it had become less popular due to poor maintenance, and the famous HOT crowd had migrated to other places like Keybox or Cruise. But after reading some other comments and experience of some other bloggers, I've decided to see for myself what is (or was) the glory of Abs.

The date I chose to travel was no coincidence. I made plans for that weekend because of the special monthly event there - The Foam Party. I've never been to one before, so it was really tempting.

On Sunday evening (7+pm), I headed to the busy street in Chinatown, there were many tourists and vendors alike, I quietly sneaked up the stairs to find myself at the entrance and reception. I was NERVOUS. After answering some questions and registering, I was given 2 towels and a locker key.

It was supposed to be fully nude after 7.30pm, since it was still early everyone was in their underwear so I followed. Again, a first timer has to explore the place and figure out the layout, so my first few laps around were slightly clumsy and funny hahaha. At some darker places I actually walked into the wall, because there were mirrors here and there, so it's hard to tell between a wall and an actual walkway hahahaha!

I finally figured my way around. 1st floor was lockers, shower and steam room, though the steam room had not been functioning for some time according to the guys there. 2nd and 3rd floor had the usual dark alleys, maze, private cabins. The cabins were all spread out on the floors unlike local saunas where they are all centered together. Going further up the 3rd floor led to a beautiful rooftop bar and open area, the venue of the foam party. The foam was already bubbling, but no one was in yet. More on foam party later.

So I headed back down and basically just cruised around, checking out 'Singapore' haha. I could immediately see the difference between SG and KL crowd. Definitely higher quality overall in terms of body and looks, but I was told later by a guy that this night was considered average only in terms of hotties. So I could only imagine what a full HOT night was like haha. I was expecting ALL guys to be ridiculously fit and good looking, but turns out they weren't that intimidating. Sure those in their 20s and 30s had nice chest and arms, but not many had like toned abs. I mean, I could fit in there OK. Not the hottest, but not the worst too LOL.

I know this sounds shallow, but I was incredibly relieved that I still had market value in Singapore. I believe I fall into the cute, innocent, "come fuck me" category. Or maybe I just gave out that skanky vibe. I put in a lot of effort prior to going there to make myself look better, like extra time on the treadmill, styling my hair, wearing contact lenses, some foundation to cover up some flaws haha. Singapore guys are not too much better than KL guys. Just marginally. So jangan risau sahabat-sahabat tanah airku. At least from what I observed that night.

More coming up tomorrow ;)

XOXO

Singapore Shopping!

I'm an excellent teaser (not just in bed), so I'm not gonna talk about the juicy bits until later.

Every gay guy should like to, or at least feel a need to shop! Otherwise you're not really gay. I think it's important to have a good sense of personal style and know what looks good on you and what you need to add to your wardrobe. For instance, the type of denim cut that fits your body best, or the colour that suits you or which colour you don't have yet, or how can you match this shirt with which pants, etc. I actually organize my wardrobe according to shirt type and then colour... so immediately I can tell that I have mostly grey/black, green and red.

Having said that, I went to Singapore after I reviewed my closet and I even did a web search of the places I plan to shop at to browse through their online catalog to spot for specific items. Yes, I'm that obsessive compulsive. Obviously everything is expensive in Singapore once you convert the prices back to Ringgit, so I only focused on things that weren't available in Malaysia:

H&M

The beautiful white exterior of the store was striking on Orchard Road. The store consisted of 3 floors, but only half of the 3rd floor was the men's department. To be honest, I was slightly disappointed because online the stuff looked so chic, but when you see the items in your hand, you can kind of tell that the quality of the finishing and sewing isn't that great. I mean, I have seen better stuff at about the same price in Malaysia. And I had some issues with the sizing of the pants hahaha. I tried on a pair of shorts at size 31 Europe, it was ridiculously loose, then I tried 29 and it was still loose. In the end, I bought a pair of cargo shorts at the smallest available size (28 Europe), but even that I still need to belt it to prevent it slipping off my waist when I jump. LOL trust me I'm not that skinny, it's just that the cutting is meant for Caucasians I think. Also bought a simple T shirt :)

A&F

After H&M I walked up the street to the infamous Abercrombie & Fitch store, the first in Southeast Asia. I'm sure you have seen pics of your friends sharing on fb of those shirtless, hunky models in red sweat pants. Well, there was only 1 model greeter on that day, and he was fully clothed haha.. plus he didn't look friendly. Kind of like sending the message that he didn't want to take pics with anyone LOL. The store itself was unlike any other, it was really dark with loud clubbing music, actually like the dark rooms and mazes of saunas hahaha! And the entire place just smelled soooo strongly of the A&F fragrance which was almost suffocating. And there were mirrors everywhere! A vain person would enjoy this place LOL. Everything for sale was horribly overpriced. I was just glad I bought some stuff at H&M, otherwise I would be leaving Orchard Road empty handed :P

Uniqlo

Haha I know we have this here in Malaysia too, but there was a sale and I happened to find something I liked so I made a small purchase :P

Sausage/Meat Market Singapore Guys

OK haha I don't mean to be objectifying men, but damn I saw so many hotties on the street and MRT stations. It's not just the distinctively more defined physical built, but even face wise some Singaporeans have a characteristic macho look... not exactly very handsome, but I don't know.. maybe it's the jaw line or eyes.. makes them tough looking or 'yeng'.. I definitely don't see too many of this kind of guys in KL. But I'm not sure how much of the population is gay, coz quite a number of gay looking hotties had girlfriends haha.  


Alight, that concludes the shopping and browsing section. Stay tuned for the rest :P

XOXO

 

Back from the South!

Hey bloggies!

I just got home from a short 3 day weekend getaway to Singapore, and I had such a great time :)

First time traveling to another country solo, had to plan everything from transport to accommodation to the things to see and do entirely on my own.

After having some family drama recently I just needed to get away from everyone and everything here... It was refreshing to go on holiday alone, I had complete control and flexibility and could do things my way. Sure it was maybe a little lonely at times, but overall the whole experience was more therapeutic and fun!

Needless to say, I did some PLU related stuff and I can't wait to blog about it and share with you all! Singaporean guys are just hot hot hot!!! :)

But it will happen in the days to come. Right now I need to get some good rest.

P.S. I miss reading everyone's blogs! Time to catch up :P


XOXO