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Saturday, July 28, 2012

SG: Absolute ~ Final Chapter!!

The epic conclusion to the Dark Knight I mean Singapore sauna TRILOGY! Haha btw Dark Knight Rises was awesome, I so wanna be like Selina Kyle a.k.a. catwoman LOL.

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So I made a beeline into the foam and crowd. The foam was generated by this machine placed in the center of the open space, and it periodically releases new foam, so that there's always enough supply to cover everyone! It was building up and getting everywhere... like a monster sludge spilling all over haha.

The foam was interesting. Soap based, very white and quite thick, not as free flowing as I thought it would be. It's not like bubbles, it really was FOAM. I tried blowing the foam off my hand, and it didn't really move LOL, so you have some idea of how viscous it was. The sensation on the body was nice and smooth, not irritating unless you're sensitive to soap I guess.

The atmosphere was like a disco dancefloor with slow song on, coz everyone had to be quiet, and it was slightly dark except for the natural moon light, and everyone was sort of like SLOW DANCING if you know what I mean, like you see couples or groups of people just hugging, swaying and feeling each other. Since the foam was above waist height, wondering hands were going around, you get touched but you don't see the hand behind it haha.

Almost once I got into the foam, I was approached by THE MOST AMAZING guy (period) I've ever met in a sauna. He was cute, slightly shorter than me but fit like S'pore guys, to be honest not the usual type I go for because I prefer macho and hunky more than cute. Cute guys look young, I thought he was 23-24, but he was actually 28. But he had this charisma, and the way he picked me up was so smooth... like almost instantly I felt his charm, and decided that I was his for the night. He stood behind me with arms around me like a couple cuddling. We fondled and flirted in the foam, it felt SO AMAZING... coz the foam smooths things out, so his tool was gliding against me at all the right places!!! Seriously, ultra sensitizing! :P

I think everyone in the foam knew I was a first timer, because I looked so genuinely excited to be in it, I was playing around with the foam like a kid, and I made some comments here and there, and that guy (oh his name is Ken) kept asking me to 'Shhhhh' while smiling cheekily coz apparently I was loud since it was so quiet up there LOL. And every now and then I would freak out when the foam level starts rising because I was wearing contact lenses and didn't want to get it in my eyes hahaha.

We found a corner and chatted about so many things while fondling, I got to know him a little better. And this guy was SUPER HAIRY at selective places, namely the thighs and groin area below the belly button. I had so much fun rubbing his thigh because the bushy hair combined with the foam was SO NICE hahahaha. His tool was so hard ;)

We must have been in the foam for like almost an hour. The atmosphere was romantic, beautiful starry sky, the calmness of the night, and a beautiful view of Chinatown. It was like meant to be, for me to be in Singapore that night, at that moment and meet this guy. I connected with Ken not just on a sexual level, but emotionally and intellectually as well. You don't get this often at places like this. When the crowd started to diminish, we decided to head down as well. Before going downstairs, the staff had to shower us in the rooftop bathroom so that the foam won't be brought down to floors below.

We began searching for a private room. It was HARD because many did not have functioning lights, and you can't do things properly in pitch dark conditions. While waiting for a room, we hung around at the mini gym. He sat on one of the exercise machine's bench and asked me to sit in front of him. Another public cuddling moment for all to see LOL.

Finally got a room. And you can guess what happened next. We went all the way, and I had not released myself for an entire week, so it was pretty explosive. We proceeded to shower together, the sauna even provided mouthwash which I thought was brilliant!! We chatted even in the shower, and as we got dried up parted ways to get dressed since our lockers were at different spots. I took my time, thinking he would come look for me if he was already done... I checked my phone it was almost 10.30pm. I searched around for him but he was no where in sight! While showering he said he had to catch the MRT home, and the last train was like 11 or 11.30.... so maybe he was rushing..... but then why didn't he at least say goodbye first? :(

We had such a good time, I thought he would at least wanna keep in contact. Guess maybe he wasn't that into me? And I know phone numbers are never meant to be exchanged in saunas... some guys go there, do stuff and leave it all behind. I'm usually like that too. But I've not met a guy this incredible in the longest time, so can you imagine how disappointed and emo I was... coz I don't go to Singapore often, and the chances of running into him again is like bordering on zero. :(

And it honestly wasn't about sex, coz frankly it was a little too painful and not as skillful for my liking. It was the emotional connection. I'm not saying I'm already in love with him, but I really enjoyed his company. We probably wouldn't be suited for each other in an actual relationship, but in a way meeting him has sort of opened my mind, and heart, that there are still great guys out there worth spending time with. Guys that I would actually wanna date and try to connect with. In some ways, I'm ready to date again.

From now on, I shall implement what I call the Ken Bench(mark). This will be my internal guy assessment system. Whenever I meet a new guy or if a guy shows interest in me, I shall evaluate whether I would rather date this guy or I would rather date Ken, or at least the memory of what I have of Ken. Haha don't worry Ken is not perfect, there were definitely minor flaws to his character that I picked up on. So If a guy stands equal or greater than his level, then I will give it a go.

Ken Bench will officially be in effect...................... NOW!

XOXO

17 comments:

  1. Wah.... it's like a romance story in Singapore... omgggg hahahaha >_<. I now have this picture in my head that you guys may bump into each other in the future and....*music starts playing* ......and for you to continue the story for us LOL :P

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    1. huhhhhh... my heart was so heavy that night when I went to bed... Just the thought that I'll never see this guy again.. it was like a small part of my walls came crashing down :(

      Probably not a happy ending to this story haha..

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    2. You'd never know lor ;)! Expect the unexpected :D

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  2. You true that there's still good guys out there. Guys which you can connect in many other ways.

    But then again, guys in sauna, are in just for the fun. Love ? Need to find somewhere else perhaps.

    :)

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    1. I know everyone goes to sauna for fun.. and usually I can separate the emotion from the physical pleasure very well...

      Just meeting this guy, I was totally caught by surprise.. Really wasn't expecting to connect with someone like that. Maybe because I was a tourist in a foreign land on holiday mood haha, so I let my guard down a little and became unrealistically hopeful...

      But yeah, at least now I realize there are still great guys out there that meet my standards. Though very rare, but still can be found ;)

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  3. :) naise.....

    i have goosebumps after reading this, was listening to a slow korean ballad and the mood just made me tear smiling... haha..

    i miss him you know... but like... .... .........haha.. whatever la..

    *index finger on table circles in motion with deep thoughts*

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    1. *big hugs*

      An opportunity gone to waste. I keep thinking how things could have been different if I just asked for his number sooner, and didn't wait until the last minute. Who knows, maybe he thought I wasn't interested so he didn't ask. Or he wanted to look for me too.. but then he didn't see me, thought I left already.. so he left... HAHAHA so many 'What if' going thru my head :/

      You know, I've never really been in a long relationship like you, but I do know that feeling of missing someone that I had an attachment with, though it wasn't anything serious..
      So I can only imagine what you're feeling is probably like a 100 times of the feelings I felt.. Just those memories replaying in your head, must not be easy.....

      He may or may not have moved on already, and so can you... when you're ready you will know.. until then, just give your heart time to heal, by focusing on other things. I find that keeping myself busy and being productive helps me deal with emotional stuff better :)

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  4. I thought the foam party would be wild and all.. Never knew it would be calm and romantic..

    Hati Jboy dah kena cupid arrow ni..
    Maybe you'll meet him again la. Go singapore and hunt! But bring me with you next time. :P

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    1. Yeah I thought everyone would go wild and splash foam at each other.. But it turned out to be the opposite haha... But it was really fun and interesting, next time we go together haha.. I think a foam party is something everyone has got to experience at least once in life! :P

      hahahaha not cupid lah... I don't love him, I just feel like I could have got to know this guy better and then see if anything can develop from there.. Knowing that it's a lost opportunity makes me a little sad... but yeah, who knows, if fate really has it... i just might run into him at maybe another foam party next year? :P

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  5. were there all chinese , malay ,indian ?

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  6. were there malays and indians as well ?

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    1. Huh interesting that you ask this question. I'm trying very hard to recall now, and if I remember correctly, I didn't see any Indians at all. Maybe 1 or 2 Malays, or they could be Chinese also haha coz some of the Chinese guys there are quite tanned.

      I definitely saw foreigners (tourists)... like 4 or 5 Caucasians.

      But yeah, the crowd was like 95% Chinese.. even staff was all Chinese, no Thai workers haha :P

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  7. ==" oh my... NEVER fall in love with strangers you met for ONS!!! >___<

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  8. Wow... he is quite amazing to actually have such impact in you. It's a bloody sweet encounter. Glad that you didn't linger in the "sad" zone and now came right up. Cheers

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