Silence

Everything seems to have settled down.

Ironically, after writing the previous post there has been a lot less responses from the dating site. I guess the initial wave is over.

Earlier I wasn't sure what to do with all the guys, now I'm not sure what to do when it's so quiet.

Currently I'm getting along with a guy on msn. I'm looking towards a relationship, so over the sex with acquaintance thing. Brian is sweet and caring, but I'm most attracted to his intelligence. The way he speaks, the things he talks about are witty. It's hard to find a man with substance, so I'm glad I met him. He is moderately hot, and also sings (slightly off tune though haha). He showed me some of his videos on YouTube and promised to record a song dedicated to me.

I know it's mushy, getting goose bumps now. Don't know how I feel. Maybe I'm getting cold feet. Just not sure if a relationship with him is good for me. Many things to consider like the age difference, culture... he is Filipino-Japanese working in KL, I'm Malaysian Chinese.