Confronting Him

Someone must have put high doses of 'Courage' into my food and drink, maybe it was 'Insanity'. I confronted Eric, not face to face, but through how I know best... Facebook! Actually what I did was cowardly, verging on crazy because I used my so called 'alternate' account, which had no real information about me, except gender...

Long story short, I sent him a message a couple of days ago thinking he would just treat it as spam. But today I saw a reply from him, so I replied and then he replied. Now I'm still waiting for a reply but I don't think I will get one. It went something like this:


Me: Eric, Can't stop thinking about you, and I hate it. Sorry for disturbing, that's my problem... I fall for ppl so easily. My radar tells me you're plu. Correct me if I'm wrong and help me get on my way.

Him: may i know who are u and how do u know me

Me: Sigh it doesn't matter. anyway thanks for replying.. wasn't expecting it. Btw u didn't answer my question. Think of it as helping me test the accuracy of my radar.. it has quite a bad track record LOL
Besides if you say you're not it will help me move on and I won't disturb you ever again.
Don't worry i promise i won't tell anyone, i'm not stupid.

Him: lol ...... seriously do u just jump into other people's lives thinking that it is appropriate without even introducing yourself

Me: Ermmm yea I'm a little crazy haha. See if you were plu you would understand my position. So maybe you aren't. There's so much more for me to lose for introducing myself, whereas you answering one question has virtually no risk.
I'm not a serial killer, not going to get your info and sell it or hack your accounts or anything lol. Just a hopeless romantic.
But then again you gotta point. I wouldn't reveal anything to someone i don't know either..... but it's just 1 question, if someone asks me i would probably answer.
OK never mind, i'm just talking to myself now...
Thanks for replying at least, you're nicer than i thought :p

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That was it. It's been 5 hours and no reply.
He isn't much of a talker, while I just blurt everything out.
But he didn't deny he was plu, or told me to fuck off. If he was straight he could have just said so right?
Why keep me hanging there? It's like slow torture...

I hope you guys don't think I'm crazy. I would never hurt him or do any scary stuff. Sending him mails might be disturbing, but it's decent content. No naked pictures or threats of any kind.
Haihhh I kind of regret doing it now.

Dreamy

My feelings for Eric are getting strong again.
My mood swings like a pendulum that oscillates from both extremes. What a bitch.

Saw him in the library today. Actually it was like spying. I was walking pass the shelves and saw him searching for books with a friend. So I purposely walked around the shelves pretending to look at books, like a shark circulating it's prey haha! Don't think he noticed me but it was so nice to see him!

My heart beats so much faster when he is in sight.
Whenever I see his pics on facebook, I feel like melting into a puddle of chocolate. He has really dreamy eyes, the type that you can stare at forever. Even as I'm typing this, I can feel the sweetness in my heart...

I thought of giving you guys a glimpse of him.. with the important features covered of course so that no one recognizes him. Hopefully I'm not breaking any rules or law :P




















Ain't he sexy? Too bad you can't see those killer DREAMY eyes :)

New Look

I didn't go for a make over, but my blog did :P

I realized the barb wire background was not the feel that I want my readers to get.
Sure my love life is depressing and all but worst things could have happened right.

I will try to be more optimistic about life, and who knows my prince might show up......
Can't believe I said that. It sounds nearly impossible, ridiculous. Even I'm not buying it.

OH WAIT... optimism!!!

The following is a shout out:

HEEEYYYY I'm over here, my knight in shining armor!
Did your horse break it's leg?
Do you need GPS to locate me?
I'm starting to get bored, and you won't like me when I'm bored!
Hurry before I get all old and wrinkly!!!

Psyching Myself

It's Tuesday again.
Means I got to see Eric today.
I don't feel as crazy as before, but every time we cross eyes I still feel something there. It's weird now.

Just when I decided to let him go, I start noticing signs that he's trying to get close to me.

It's strange how things work. Today he actually came up to me and we talked for like a few seconds (though it was work related). After some time, when we were all free and just chilling, I looked across the room and noticed he was staring at me (for sure). Even when he saw me looking at him, he continued looking at me, so I quickly looked away! =.= But there was no smile or flirty expression on his face. Just blank. What the hell is that supposed to mean? I'm no face reader haha.

Like I said it's weird. Somehow this time I feel something coming from him. Previously when I was all gaga about him, maybe I would have imagined that he was looking at me. But now that I feel more neutral about things, my senses should be sharper and less affected by emotions... so there is no bias in my perception lol. Therefore what I detect should be real right?

I'm starting to over think again. Time to sleep. Good night!

Feeling Alejandro

I think you guys can tell I haven't been exactly cheerful lately.

I really liked this song when the video first came out, but I feel the elements of the song so much more now. Guess you need to be in a dark place to truly appreciate it.

The message is not entirely clear, but I think that's part of the idea. To make it more intriguing, get people talking, keep fans guessing. It would be less effective if it were blatant.
Watching the video makes it more confusing. Which part is truly conveying the message, which part is just meant for cinematography, and which part is just for publicity (dressing as a nun)?

The first impression I got when I heard the lyrics was... Gaga having an affair with a married man, or someone who's clearly taken, so Gaga knows she has to let go. The line "she's got a halo round her finger, around you", the halo described should be a wedding ring, one that the man is wearing and so is his wife- hence making Gaga the third person.

More interesting (and controversial) theories I have read claim that Alejandro signifies God. The scene where she lies in bed dressed as a nun, she looks up to the sky when she said "Stop, please, just let me go, Alejandro". She raised both hands up when she called Alejandro. Several other signs in the video were reported as Gaga rejecting god, opting to empower herself instead.
Gaga fans out there please read this with an open mind, everyone has an opinion so I guess we should at least listen regardless if it's right or wrong, as long as you know your stand on it.

Personally I think the whole religion thing is just a publicity stunt, don't think she really is out to control everyone. But if you think about it, her meteoric rise to fame and how her fan base is growing in such a short period of time does make me wonder how or why it happened. It's not exactly normal.

Back to the song. Basically the theme is rejection. Doesn't matter if it was a break up, or if someone died, or if they were forced apart, it all comes to the same ending: loss of love.
I read a MTV interview where the director of the video said it was about "The pain of not being with your true love".

Look Somewhere Else

Sometimes the best way to stop yourself from hurting is to focus on something else.

I don't want to think about Eric anymore. Will stop dreaming about him, don't want to see his pictures on Facebook anymore. Don't want to guess his sexuality. Don't want to guess if he's interested in me or not.

Whatever happens, happens right... or "If it's meant to be, it will be".
They say love comes when you least expect it. *sigh* Yeah right, I'm still waiting for that to happen.

Over the years I think I try too hard. I realized being in a relationship is not that important. I won't die if I'm single. The feeling of loneliness comes every now and then, but it fades with time especially when I'm busy. So now I will immerse myself in studies. Channel all the energy on finishing work. I really need to do that to survive this semester.

Yeah I definitely feel better than that day. My mind is on track now.
I will not allow myself to get hurt.

Time to "get hard". My heart is hardened.

Horrible Turn

Today was a very very bad day.
One of the worst since I entered Uni.

So MANY things went wrong, it was a combination of bad luck and mistakes on my part.
Eric hardly paid any attention to me today. I was already feeling so low, yet he looked as if he couldn't be bothered.

As if things weren't bad enough I started feeling sick. Was a little unwell and couldn't pay attention in lab. I was agitated by all the things that went wrong.

Was supposed to meet a friend for lunch but because of the problems before, I was half an hour late. He was pissed but didn't show it. I know I would if you make me wait that long. In the end we ate in the cafeteria instead of going out because he had another class soon. I hate eating there. Very crowded and hot, made me feel even more uncomfortable.

Actually there's another 2 hours of lecture in the afternoon but I couldn't take it anymore. Felt like I was going to burst into tears so I rushed home. It's a rule of mine to NOT cry about personal matters in front of other people, even family members.

Usually crying helps make me feel better. But no tears are coming out now. I guess I have calmed down. I'm tired. Maybe I should take a nap before facing the pile of assignments that will be due soon. Sucks. Tired, lonely, sick and stressed.

And guess what.. I discovered Eric's real name by chance. Yeah it required some googling and smart thinking. Next was Facebook. He used his chinese name instead of Eric so no wonder I had no luck before. Not much info except his hometown. No D.O.B or relationship status. At least there were some pictures. He had like 400+ friends, only 1 mutual friend that was my high school mate.

I'm starting to sense that he isn't plu.
Even if he is, based on how he treated me today I'm sure he has no feelings for me.
I'm really starting to think that I should forget about him A.S.A.P. :(