Hey bloggies!
Sorry for not updating lately. Currently at a place really far away from home, but geographically I'm actually closer to some of you *cough cough* Those who know will know what I mean ;P
Long story short, I'm on holiday and won't be back till the second week of September.
Just wanted to write something so that this page won't be dusty, and it's time for me to catch up on your blogs!! *reads away*
Till then,
XOXO
Thursday, August 30, 2012
Friday, August 17, 2012
Brokeback!
Haha I didn't actually break my back, but it sure hurts like crazy... my lower back has been stiff and sore since yesterday.
Before you jump to conclusions..... NO, it wasn't caused by an acrobatic three-way (though that sure would make hell of a story)... The real reason is actually lame.
I was at the gym on Tuesday, participating in a free training session. Oh yeah fyi I changed gyms recently, no longer going to the old place (Sorry Danny for never making it to your class!). So this trainer was teaching us how to do some weight exercises, involving the use of barbells and this heavy ball thingy with a handle on it. I actually had no idea what it's called... so I Googled image 'weight ball with handle at the gym' hahaha and ta-duh it appeared!! So it's actually called a Kettlebell (pic below)!! Haha still learning my gym lingo :P
The exercise was awkward. I picked the lightest one because my arms aren't that strong.. I think it was only 8 or 10kg, and yet I had the greatest difficulty trying to swing it. We were told to hold onto the handle with both hands, and then swing the ball all the way out front and then all the way back, going under the crotch, then between the legs and then thrusting back front. The trainer said we were supposed to use our hips and thigh strength to balance the weight, but obviously I was doing it wrong because I was only feeling the pull on my back. At that time it didn't seem to hurt so I just went with it.
The next morning, I was greeted with this horrible pain when I got up. Today it got a little better but still stiff at certain spots. Have been applying Ammeltz Yoko Yoko and it helps. Right now I've definitely learned the lesson that exercise can be harmful if not done correctly! Will stay away from the kettlebells for a while now....
On another note, I've recently turned a year older! Birthdays aren't really a big deal for me, don't celebrate much apart from the standard song and blowing of candles. I enjoy cake though haha :P
Feeling a little blahh lately... with what I want to do with my life in terms of career and personal development. Just at a point of facing some crossroads.... things are a little stagnant, not sure if it's my reluctance to move or just that the right opportunities haven't come my way yet. Either way I expect to do something... and hopefully soon.
XOXO
Before you jump to conclusions..... NO, it wasn't caused by an acrobatic three-way (though that sure would make hell of a story)... The real reason is actually lame.
I was at the gym on Tuesday, participating in a free training session. Oh yeah fyi I changed gyms recently, no longer going to the old place (Sorry Danny for never making it to your class!). So this trainer was teaching us how to do some weight exercises, involving the use of barbells and this heavy ball thingy with a handle on it. I actually had no idea what it's called... so I Googled image 'weight ball with handle at the gym' hahaha and ta-duh it appeared!! So it's actually called a Kettlebell (pic below)!! Haha still learning my gym lingo :P
The exercise was awkward. I picked the lightest one because my arms aren't that strong.. I think it was only 8 or 10kg, and yet I had the greatest difficulty trying to swing it. We were told to hold onto the handle with both hands, and then swing the ball all the way out front and then all the way back, going under the crotch, then between the legs and then thrusting back front. The trainer said we were supposed to use our hips and thigh strength to balance the weight, but obviously I was doing it wrong because I was only feeling the pull on my back. At that time it didn't seem to hurt so I just went with it.
The next morning, I was greeted with this horrible pain when I got up. Today it got a little better but still stiff at certain spots. Have been applying Ammeltz Yoko Yoko and it helps. Right now I've definitely learned the lesson that exercise can be harmful if not done correctly! Will stay away from the kettlebells for a while now....
On another note, I've recently turned a year older! Birthdays aren't really a big deal for me, don't celebrate much apart from the standard song and blowing of candles. I enjoy cake though haha :P
Feeling a little blahh lately... with what I want to do with my life in terms of career and personal development. Just at a point of facing some crossroads.... things are a little stagnant, not sure if it's my reluctance to move or just that the right opportunities haven't come my way yet. Either way I expect to do something... and hopefully soon.
XOXO
Sunday, August 12, 2012
Massage Again + Important Message
Yet another skanky tale to spill about.
I blogged about my first massage last month, that was considered proper even though the venue was a sauna. I decided to check out a plu establishment, I guess you can call it a massage center, since they didn't have sauna/steam rooms.
Called to make a booking, I got to choose a masseur from pics uploaded. My first choice wasn't available, so I ended up with a young looking charming Sabah native. This place provides B2B massage (for those that don't know.. it's body to body).... so you can say it's more sexual in nature than a regular massage.
The place was not as posh as I expected. Simple looking, some deco, nice relaxing music playing in the background. The toilet/bathroom was cheap, there was no proper shower, you have to use a mug to scoop the water from a large bucket. Also the massage bed/mattress was so thin that you can feel the hard floor.
The massage itself was good. The masseur looked twinky in the pic, but he was actually quite well built, had good strength for kneading and pressing. The massage was performed in semi dark conditions, he was naked right away. As expected, the massage starts off proper, with him pressing and working on my legs, shoulders, back. Then the 'body to body' part started... he applied lots of lotion on his chest, and started rubbing his body against my back haha going up down left right. Then it was chest to chest, face to face... and further down you have ahem to ahem ;)
The last time I had a massage I was shy to touch the masseur... so this time I decided to go all out and wild, my hands were running against him all over LOL. At times, it was like I was giving him a massage instead hahaha. He was into it, his member was hardening and he started responding to my actions.... I think we strayed away from the actual course of the massage segment and started doing other stuff haha. This guy had super hairy thighs just like Ken from Singapore. This concludes that I'm into hairy men haha! Just so nice to touch! :P
And it was interesting because prior to leaving home, I felt the impulse to bring along condoms and lube.... and sure enough it came in handy. I think the masseurs are not allowed to officially have anal sex with the patrons, because condoms were not provided there, and he actually told me he was scared to throw the used condom in the dustbin outside, and ended up wrapping it in lots of tissue to hide it from the guy at the front desk which I suppose is the owner or supervisor.
Having our bodies rub against each other with oily lotion is such a turn on!! I didn't actually plan on doing the full deed with him... but somehow I got caught up in the moment and initiated it and later at home I realized my ass was bleeding. No worries it's only very mild and dried up almost instantly.
After this whole thing I felt kind of dirty. Don't know why... it's not that different from going to the sauna.. maybe it's because I tried to seduce the masseur and the way I molested him... Or perhaps it has to do with the fact that I was paying for the service... so I'm somehow feeling guilt for equating money with sex... because at the sauna it's between 2 guys that wanna do it... here it's like the masseur is kind of obliged to do it with me, though he looked like he enjoyed my company haha.
Or maybe it was because of all the oil, I actually showered twice (once there, and another time when I got home) to get rid of all the oiliness. Or is it the fact that I bled and am somehow worrying about STDs and stuff even though we played safe from the start and he didn't cum inside me.
Right now I totally see why everyone sees me as a dirty whore/slut, and in some ways I'm starting to realize that perhaps this is not the lifestyle that I want and I should tone it down from now. It's not so much that I care what other people think of me, but for me the reasons are internal and how I feel about it and what I think is right for me. I think I have already reached the pinnacles of having casual sex haha. Already done the saunas and massages. Tried most of the stuff there is to try, except drugs and prostitution LOL.
Not saying that I'm going to be Mother Teresa from now, because people can't change right away... but yeah, definitely I won't be visiting places like these so soon. I hope.
And I also realize I have an audience of some younger PLU or perhaps those that are new to the circle or just curious about trying all kinds of sexual activities. Therefore I feel a strong need to emphasize that despite I've been out and about a lot in the past year, I have ALWAYS played safe and taken the necessary precautions every single time, and also understand that the risks are ever present even when you use safety supplies. If you do wanna try and experiment, PLEASE always insist on using CONDOMS. You won't know about the guy's history, who he has been with, chances are he won't know either if he had picked up anything. I think I will write up a post on my full list of precautions in the near future.
Till then,
XOXO
I blogged about my first massage last month, that was considered proper even though the venue was a sauna. I decided to check out a plu establishment, I guess you can call it a massage center, since they didn't have sauna/steam rooms.
Called to make a booking, I got to choose a masseur from pics uploaded. My first choice wasn't available, so I ended up with a young looking charming Sabah native. This place provides B2B massage (for those that don't know.. it's body to body).... so you can say it's more sexual in nature than a regular massage.
The place was not as posh as I expected. Simple looking, some deco, nice relaxing music playing in the background. The toilet/bathroom was cheap, there was no proper shower, you have to use a mug to scoop the water from a large bucket. Also the massage bed/mattress was so thin that you can feel the hard floor.
The massage itself was good. The masseur looked twinky in the pic, but he was actually quite well built, had good strength for kneading and pressing. The massage was performed in semi dark conditions, he was naked right away. As expected, the massage starts off proper, with him pressing and working on my legs, shoulders, back. Then the 'body to body' part started... he applied lots of lotion on his chest, and started rubbing his body against my back haha going up down left right. Then it was chest to chest, face to face... and further down you have ahem to ahem ;)
The last time I had a massage I was shy to touch the masseur... so this time I decided to go all out and wild, my hands were running against him all over LOL. At times, it was like I was giving him a massage instead hahaha. He was into it, his member was hardening and he started responding to my actions.... I think we strayed away from the actual course of the massage segment and started doing other stuff haha. This guy had super hairy thighs just like Ken from Singapore. This concludes that I'm into hairy men haha! Just so nice to touch! :P
And it was interesting because prior to leaving home, I felt the impulse to bring along condoms and lube.... and sure enough it came in handy. I think the masseurs are not allowed to officially have anal sex with the patrons, because condoms were not provided there, and he actually told me he was scared to throw the used condom in the dustbin outside, and ended up wrapping it in lots of tissue to hide it from the guy at the front desk which I suppose is the owner or supervisor.
Having our bodies rub against each other with oily lotion is such a turn on!! I didn't actually plan on doing the full deed with him... but somehow I got caught up in the moment and initiated it and later at home I realized my ass was bleeding. No worries it's only very mild and dried up almost instantly.
After this whole thing I felt kind of dirty. Don't know why... it's not that different from going to the sauna.. maybe it's because I tried to seduce the masseur and the way I molested him... Or perhaps it has to do with the fact that I was paying for the service... so I'm somehow feeling guilt for equating money with sex... because at the sauna it's between 2 guys that wanna do it... here it's like the masseur is kind of obliged to do it with me, though he looked like he enjoyed my company haha.
Or maybe it was because of all the oil, I actually showered twice (once there, and another time when I got home) to get rid of all the oiliness. Or is it the fact that I bled and am somehow worrying about STDs and stuff even though we played safe from the start and he didn't cum inside me.
Right now I totally see why everyone sees me as a dirty whore/slut, and in some ways I'm starting to realize that perhaps this is not the lifestyle that I want and I should tone it down from now. It's not so much that I care what other people think of me, but for me the reasons are internal and how I feel about it and what I think is right for me. I think I have already reached the pinnacles of having casual sex haha. Already done the saunas and massages. Tried most of the stuff there is to try, except drugs and prostitution LOL.
Not saying that I'm going to be Mother Teresa from now, because people can't change right away... but yeah, definitely I won't be visiting places like these so soon. I hope.
And I also realize I have an audience of some younger PLU or perhaps those that are new to the circle or just curious about trying all kinds of sexual activities. Therefore I feel a strong need to emphasize that despite I've been out and about a lot in the past year, I have ALWAYS played safe and taken the necessary precautions every single time, and also understand that the risks are ever present even when you use safety supplies. If you do wanna try and experiment, PLEASE always insist on using CONDOMS. You won't know about the guy's history, who he has been with, chances are he won't know either if he had picked up anything. I think I will write up a post on my full list of precautions in the near future.
Till then,
XOXO
Friday, August 3, 2012
Interesting: Poppers & Edging
Remember I talked about being offered poppers by a guy in Absolute?
Well, just days after I returned home I got a message on Grindr (yes, I still log in there occasionally just for fun). Jack'd is the new Grindr anyway haha, but yeah I thought this was interesting...
I should have asked how much he was selling it for just for fun... Didn't know there are so many brands, have you guys ever heard of or tried any of these? Is it safe to consume, or are there any side effects or long term consequences on health?
What is it supposed to do... like does it make you hard or just high? So many questions :P
Being an adventurous person, I would like to try it at least once just to know what it feels like.... but more research on its safety is definitely required before I do so.
Onto something else I read about recently... actually it was first triggered by LeoNut that shared a very interesting video with me.... haha go watch this and BE AMAZED :P (warning: it's porn)
http://thepenilepoet.blogspot.com.au/2012/03/viva-la-spunktastic.html?zx=3557530f0a6e76d
Freaking amazing right?!?! Needless to say I tried to accomplish this feat myself by saving up my reserves for well over a week, but the end result was no where near that dude. I think it should be every guy's dream to shoot a more explosive load and make a big mess right? :P
The question is.... how do you increase the amount of output?
I read some articles, and one of the techniques to achieve it is by EDGING.
http://dickblogs.com/advice/get-a-bigger-cum-load-edging/
And here are some other tips..
http://dickblogs.com/uncategorized/advice-5-steps-to-a-bigger-jizz-load/
So I guess that's the assignment for this week, or maybe the next couple of weeks hahaha.
Are you game? ;)
XOXO
Well, just days after I returned home I got a message on Grindr (yes, I still log in there occasionally just for fun). Jack'd is the new Grindr anyway haha, but yeah I thought this was interesting...
I should have asked how much he was selling it for just for fun... Didn't know there are so many brands, have you guys ever heard of or tried any of these? Is it safe to consume, or are there any side effects or long term consequences on health?
What is it supposed to do... like does it make you hard or just high? So many questions :P
Being an adventurous person, I would like to try it at least once just to know what it feels like.... but more research on its safety is definitely required before I do so.
Onto something else I read about recently... actually it was first triggered by LeoNut that shared a very interesting video with me.... haha go watch this and BE AMAZED :P (warning: it's porn)
http://thepenilepoet.blogspot.com.au/2012/03/viva-la-spunktastic.html?zx=3557530f0a6e76d
Freaking amazing right?!?! Needless to say I tried to accomplish this feat myself by saving up my reserves for well over a week, but the end result was no where near that dude. I think it should be every guy's dream to shoot a more explosive load and make a big mess right? :P
The question is.... how do you increase the amount of output?
I read some articles, and one of the techniques to achieve it is by EDGING.
http://dickblogs.com/advice/get-a-bigger-cum-load-edging/
And here are some other tips..
http://dickblogs.com/uncategorized/advice-5-steps-to-a-bigger-jizz-load/
So I guess that's the assignment for this week, or maybe the next couple of weeks hahaha.
Are you game? ;)
XOXO
Monday, July 30, 2012
Cover: Wide Awake
So I recorded this soon after I returned from Singapore.
This song has a strong significance to me, I grew onto it the moment I first heard it.
It's about realization and moving on in your life. The past has a way of clinging on to us, and dragging us down, you may not even know it consciously because you are so consumed by it, but there will come a day when you see it all with a clarity that just enlightens you and sets you free. And that's a personal journey that only you can undertake, because no one else has that power over you.
I dedicate this to those that are either in the wilderness at this point in life, or to those that are already beginning to see a new light and trying to make that next step forward.
For better tomorrows :)
XOXO
This song has a strong significance to me, I grew onto it the moment I first heard it.
It's about realization and moving on in your life. The past has a way of clinging on to us, and dragging us down, you may not even know it consciously because you are so consumed by it, but there will come a day when you see it all with a clarity that just enlightens you and sets you free. And that's a personal journey that only you can undertake, because no one else has that power over you.
I dedicate this to those that are either in the wilderness at this point in life, or to those that are already beginning to see a new light and trying to make that next step forward.
For better tomorrows :)
XOXO
Saturday, July 28, 2012
SG: Absolute ~ Final Chapter!!
The epic conclusion to the Dark Knight I mean Singapore sauna TRILOGY! Haha btw Dark Knight Rises was awesome, I so wanna be like Selina Kyle a.k.a. catwoman LOL.
Alright.............
So I made a beeline into the foam and crowd. The foam was generated by this machine placed in the center of the open space, and it periodically releases new foam, so that there's always enough supply to cover everyone! It was building up and getting everywhere... like a monster sludge spilling all over haha.
The foam was interesting. Soap based, very white and quite thick, not as free flowing as I thought it would be. It's not like bubbles, it really was FOAM. I tried blowing the foam off my hand, and it didn't really move LOL, so you have some idea of how viscous it was. The sensation on the body was nice and smooth, not irritating unless you're sensitive to soap I guess.
The atmosphere was like a disco dancefloor with slow song on, coz everyone had to be quiet, and it was slightly dark except for the natural moon light, and everyone was sort of like SLOW DANCING if you know what I mean, like you see couples or groups of people just hugging, swaying and feeling each other. Since the foam was above waist height, wondering hands were going around, you get touched but you don't see the hand behind it haha.
Almost once I got into the foam, I was approached by THE MOST AMAZING guy (period) I've ever met in a sauna. He was cute, slightly shorter than me but fit like S'pore guys, to be honest not the usual type I go for because I prefer macho and hunky more than cute. Cute guys look young, I thought he was 23-24, but he was actually 28. But he had this charisma, and the way he picked me up was so smooth... like almost instantly I felt his charm, and decided that I was his for the night. He stood behind me with arms around me like a couple cuddling. We fondled and flirted in the foam, it felt SO AMAZING... coz the foam smooths things out, so his tool was gliding against me at all the right places!!! Seriously, ultra sensitizing! :P
I think everyone in the foam knew I was a first timer, because I looked so genuinely excited to be in it, I was playing around with the foam like a kid, and I made some comments here and there, and that guy (oh his name is Ken) kept asking me to 'Shhhhh' while smiling cheekily coz apparently I was loud since it was so quiet up there LOL. And every now and then I would freak out when the foam level starts rising because I was wearing contact lenses and didn't want to get it in my eyes hahaha.
We found a corner and chatted about so many things while fondling, I got to know him a little better. And this guy was SUPER HAIRY at selective places, namely the thighs and groin area below the belly button. I had so much fun rubbing his thigh because the bushy hair combined with the foam was SO NICE hahahaha. His tool was so hard ;)
We must have been in the foam for like almost an hour. The atmosphere was romantic, beautiful starry sky, the calmness of the night, and a beautiful view of Chinatown. It was like meant to be, for me to be in Singapore that night, at that moment and meet this guy. I connected with Ken not just on a sexual level, but emotionally and intellectually as well. You don't get this often at places like this. When the crowd started to diminish, we decided to head down as well. Before going downstairs, the staff had to shower us in the rooftop bathroom so that the foam won't be brought down to floors below.
We began searching for a private room. It was HARD because many did not have functioning lights, and you can't do things properly in pitch dark conditions. While waiting for a room, we hung around at the mini gym. He sat on one of the exercise machine's bench and asked me to sit in front of him. Another public cuddling moment for all to see LOL.
Finally got a room. And you can guess what happened next. We went all the way, and I had not released myself for an entire week, so it was pretty explosive. We proceeded to shower together, the sauna even provided mouthwash which I thought was brilliant!! We chatted even in the shower, and as we got dried up parted ways to get dressed since our lockers were at different spots. I took my time, thinking he would come look for me if he was already done... I checked my phone it was almost 10.30pm. I searched around for him but he was no where in sight! While showering he said he had to catch the MRT home, and the last train was like 11 or 11.30.... so maybe he was rushing..... but then why didn't he at least say goodbye first? :(
We had such a good time, I thought he would at least wanna keep in contact. Guess maybe he wasn't that into me? And I know phone numbers are never meant to be exchanged in saunas... some guys go there, do stuff and leave it all behind. I'm usually like that too. But I've not met a guy this incredible in the longest time, so can you imagine how disappointed and emo I was... coz I don't go to Singapore often, and the chances of running into him again is like bordering on zero. :(
And it honestly wasn't about sex, coz frankly it was a little too painful and not as skillful for my liking. It was the emotional connection. I'm not saying I'm already in love with him, but I really enjoyed his company. We probably wouldn't be suited for each other in an actual relationship, but in a way meeting him has sort of opened my mind, and heart, that there are still great guys out there worth spending time with. Guys that I would actually wanna date and try to connect with. In some ways, I'm ready to date again.
From now on, I shall implement what I call the Ken Bench(mark). This will be my internal guy assessment system. Whenever I meet a new guy or if a guy shows interest in me, I shall evaluate whether I would rather date this guy or I would rather date Ken, or at least the memory of what I have of Ken. Haha don't worry Ken is not perfect, there were definitely minor flaws to his character that I picked up on. So If a guy stands equal or greater than his level, then I will give it a go.
Ken Bench will officially be in effect...................... NOW!
XOXO
Alright.............
So I made a beeline into the foam and crowd. The foam was generated by this machine placed in the center of the open space, and it periodically releases new foam, so that there's always enough supply to cover everyone! It was building up and getting everywhere... like a monster sludge spilling all over haha.
The foam was interesting. Soap based, very white and quite thick, not as free flowing as I thought it would be. It's not like bubbles, it really was FOAM. I tried blowing the foam off my hand, and it didn't really move LOL, so you have some idea of how viscous it was. The sensation on the body was nice and smooth, not irritating unless you're sensitive to soap I guess.
The atmosphere was like a disco dancefloor with slow song on, coz everyone had to be quiet, and it was slightly dark except for the natural moon light, and everyone was sort of like SLOW DANCING if you know what I mean, like you see couples or groups of people just hugging, swaying and feeling each other. Since the foam was above waist height, wondering hands were going around, you get touched but you don't see the hand behind it haha.
Almost once I got into the foam, I was approached by THE MOST AMAZING guy (period) I've ever met in a sauna. He was cute, slightly shorter than me but fit like S'pore guys, to be honest not the usual type I go for because I prefer macho and hunky more than cute. Cute guys look young, I thought he was 23-24, but he was actually 28. But he had this charisma, and the way he picked me up was so smooth... like almost instantly I felt his charm, and decided that I was his for the night. He stood behind me with arms around me like a couple cuddling. We fondled and flirted in the foam, it felt SO AMAZING... coz the foam smooths things out, so his tool was gliding against me at all the right places!!! Seriously, ultra sensitizing! :P
I think everyone in the foam knew I was a first timer, because I looked so genuinely excited to be in it, I was playing around with the foam like a kid, and I made some comments here and there, and that guy (oh his name is Ken) kept asking me to 'Shhhhh' while smiling cheekily coz apparently I was loud since it was so quiet up there LOL. And every now and then I would freak out when the foam level starts rising because I was wearing contact lenses and didn't want to get it in my eyes hahaha.
We found a corner and chatted about so many things while fondling, I got to know him a little better. And this guy was SUPER HAIRY at selective places, namely the thighs and groin area below the belly button. I had so much fun rubbing his thigh because the bushy hair combined with the foam was SO NICE hahahaha. His tool was so hard ;)
We must have been in the foam for like almost an hour. The atmosphere was romantic, beautiful starry sky, the calmness of the night, and a beautiful view of Chinatown. It was like meant to be, for me to be in Singapore that night, at that moment and meet this guy. I connected with Ken not just on a sexual level, but emotionally and intellectually as well. You don't get this often at places like this. When the crowd started to diminish, we decided to head down as well. Before going downstairs, the staff had to shower us in the rooftop bathroom so that the foam won't be brought down to floors below.
We began searching for a private room. It was HARD because many did not have functioning lights, and you can't do things properly in pitch dark conditions. While waiting for a room, we hung around at the mini gym. He sat on one of the exercise machine's bench and asked me to sit in front of him. Another public cuddling moment for all to see LOL.
Finally got a room. And you can guess what happened next. We went all the way, and I had not released myself for an entire week, so it was pretty explosive. We proceeded to shower together, the sauna even provided mouthwash which I thought was brilliant!! We chatted even in the shower, and as we got dried up parted ways to get dressed since our lockers were at different spots. I took my time, thinking he would come look for me if he was already done... I checked my phone it was almost 10.30pm. I searched around for him but he was no where in sight! While showering he said he had to catch the MRT home, and the last train was like 11 or 11.30.... so maybe he was rushing..... but then why didn't he at least say goodbye first? :(
We had such a good time, I thought he would at least wanna keep in contact. Guess maybe he wasn't that into me? And I know phone numbers are never meant to be exchanged in saunas... some guys go there, do stuff and leave it all behind. I'm usually like that too. But I've not met a guy this incredible in the longest time, so can you imagine how disappointed and emo I was... coz I don't go to Singapore often, and the chances of running into him again is like bordering on zero. :(
And it honestly wasn't about sex, coz frankly it was a little too painful and not as skillful for my liking. It was the emotional connection. I'm not saying I'm already in love with him, but I really enjoyed his company. We probably wouldn't be suited for each other in an actual relationship, but in a way meeting him has sort of opened my mind, and heart, that there are still great guys out there worth spending time with. Guys that I would actually wanna date and try to connect with. In some ways, I'm ready to date again.
From now on, I shall implement what I call the Ken Bench(mark). This will be my internal guy assessment system. Whenever I meet a new guy or if a guy shows interest in me, I shall evaluate whether I would rather date this guy or I would rather date Ken, or at least the memory of what I have of Ken. Haha don't worry Ken is not perfect, there were definitely minor flaws to his character that I picked up on. So If a guy stands equal or greater than his level, then I will give it a go.
Ken Bench will officially be in effect...................... NOW!
XOXO
Friday, July 27, 2012
Singapore: Absolute ~ Part 2
Alright sweeties, back to where we were.... *transports self back to that night*
OK, so it was still early I guess, no clocks around so I lost track of time. After getting familiar with the place, it was time to cruise. I wanted to dive right into the foam party, but no one was in yet... a few naked guys cheekily standing by the bar waiting to go in... everyone was like still shy shy, and downstairs everyone still had their underwear / towel on!
I spent some time at one hot spot, which was the stairs leading to the 2nd floor, because from there you have a clear view of the locker area, so you can see who just came in and watch them stripping off hahaha! As usual, some guys are walkers, they keep on moving around; while the others are the posers, they just find a spot and hang around until something catches their eye. I did a bit of both. During one of the earlier rounds in the dark maze, I was groped by an older guy, it was really crowded so I couldn't exactly escape, then 2 other guys joined in, and I was basically molested by three pairs of hands before I squeezed my way out back to the light haha. So that was the warm up.
At some point there was a loud announcement (Think: speakerphone in school classroom) asking everyone to take their towels off, as it was not allowed anymore. So I got to the locker, took off my underwear & towel. It was nice to see naked guys everywhere haha! Don't think you get such open behaviour in brightly lit rooms in Malaysian saunas.
Once I got naked, I thought of going to the foam, but on my way up, made a last minute decision to make a lap around the 3rd floor first. This was when I was approached by a guy, tall and quite buffed, he sort of hugged me, I told him I wasn't interested... but he was so persistent, and followed me around. As I said, it was hard to tell between the wall and walkway, so I got really cornered, and before I knew it, I ended up walking into a private room and he came in and I was like LOL hahahaha can't believe I just set myself up!! He said he would be quick, so I thought what the hell, he was within my standards anyway.
Won't go into details, but I really like how the private cabins are fully equipped with plentiful condoms, lube and tissue. He was older but nice and lean, I later found out he was 35, an engineer. And even in the dark I could see how chocolate brown his skin was for a Chinese. Like really BROWN. So I asked him and apparently guys there like tanning. I asked him where, and he said at the swimming pool (like duh hahaha). Halfway through, he asked me something... like if I use sjdhfjsdn (can't hear because the music was loud), then he took out some chemical stuff.... I instantly said 'NO, I don't use substances or drugs, sorry.'
He explained that it was a Popper or Dropper (couldn't really hear).. apparently you sniff it and it makes you high, but the effect lasts only a very short duration. I said NO I don't want to try it, and then he was mumbling something, and before I knew it he opened it and was sniffing it up. I could smell it from a distance, kind of like alcohol. We then proceeded, not sure if he was high because I was just laying there thinking I should make my way up to the foam.
And the most hilarious part was even though he was HIGH, he never got hard. I kind of had a feeling that he had already just released himself, so I questioned him... and he said yeah he was planning to leave already, but then he saw me and I was really his type, so..... And he is more of the Chinese speaking type, he even called me 'Bao Bei' (baby in Chinese) which made me shiver a little hahaha.
So since he already released, and it was too early for me to do so, we just chatted for a while, I was asking him about life in Singapore. He was the first Singaporean PLU that I mingled with, so I guess that was kind of special.
We then parted ways, I made my way up to the roof. WOW, by then so many guys were in the foam!! I was like 'Finally, this looks more like a party!'. Everyone had to be quiet because we are not that far up from the busy Chinatown streets below. I could clearly see the people eating at the restaurants below, so those people down there can definitely spot us if we are too loud. But it was dark of course, and they pulled down like this semi-transparent dark blinds, so in a way it was so damn awesome because a bunch of naked guys were in foam in open air just a few stories above one of the busiest streets in Singapore!!
Details on the foam next post ;)
XOXO
OK, so it was still early I guess, no clocks around so I lost track of time. After getting familiar with the place, it was time to cruise. I wanted to dive right into the foam party, but no one was in yet... a few naked guys cheekily standing by the bar waiting to go in... everyone was like still shy shy, and downstairs everyone still had their underwear / towel on!
I spent some time at one hot spot, which was the stairs leading to the 2nd floor, because from there you have a clear view of the locker area, so you can see who just came in and watch them stripping off hahaha! As usual, some guys are walkers, they keep on moving around; while the others are the posers, they just find a spot and hang around until something catches their eye. I did a bit of both. During one of the earlier rounds in the dark maze, I was groped by an older guy, it was really crowded so I couldn't exactly escape, then 2 other guys joined in, and I was basically molested by three pairs of hands before I squeezed my way out back to the light haha. So that was the warm up.
At some point there was a loud announcement (Think: speakerphone in school classroom) asking everyone to take their towels off, as it was not allowed anymore. So I got to the locker, took off my underwear & towel. It was nice to see naked guys everywhere haha! Don't think you get such open behaviour in brightly lit rooms in Malaysian saunas.
Once I got naked, I thought of going to the foam, but on my way up, made a last minute decision to make a lap around the 3rd floor first. This was when I was approached by a guy, tall and quite buffed, he sort of hugged me, I told him I wasn't interested... but he was so persistent, and followed me around. As I said, it was hard to tell between the wall and walkway, so I got really cornered, and before I knew it, I ended up walking into a private room and he came in and I was like LOL hahahaha can't believe I just set myself up!! He said he would be quick, so I thought what the hell, he was within my standards anyway.
Won't go into details, but I really like how the private cabins are fully equipped with plentiful condoms, lube and tissue. He was older but nice and lean, I later found out he was 35, an engineer. And even in the dark I could see how chocolate brown his skin was for a Chinese. Like really BROWN. So I asked him and apparently guys there like tanning. I asked him where, and he said at the swimming pool (like duh hahaha). Halfway through, he asked me something... like if I use sjdhfjsdn (can't hear because the music was loud), then he took out some chemical stuff.... I instantly said 'NO, I don't use substances or drugs, sorry.'
He explained that it was a Popper or Dropper (couldn't really hear).. apparently you sniff it and it makes you high, but the effect lasts only a very short duration. I said NO I don't want to try it, and then he was mumbling something, and before I knew it he opened it and was sniffing it up. I could smell it from a distance, kind of like alcohol. We then proceeded, not sure if he was high because I was just laying there thinking I should make my way up to the foam.
And the most hilarious part was even though he was HIGH, he never got hard. I kind of had a feeling that he had already just released himself, so I questioned him... and he said yeah he was planning to leave already, but then he saw me and I was really his type, so..... And he is more of the Chinese speaking type, he even called me 'Bao Bei' (baby in Chinese) which made me shiver a little hahaha.
So since he already released, and it was too early for me to do so, we just chatted for a while, I was asking him about life in Singapore. He was the first Singaporean PLU that I mingled with, so I guess that was kind of special.
We then parted ways, I made my way up to the roof. WOW, by then so many guys were in the foam!! I was like 'Finally, this looks more like a party!'. Everyone had to be quiet because we are not that far up from the busy Chinatown streets below. I could clearly see the people eating at the restaurants below, so those people down there can definitely spot us if we are too loud. But it was dark of course, and they pulled down like this semi-transparent dark blinds, so in a way it was so damn awesome because a bunch of naked guys were in foam in open air just a few stories above one of the busiest streets in Singapore!!
Details on the foam next post ;)
XOXO
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