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Friday, April 27, 2012

Recap on Movie Date

As promised I will talk about my movie date last week with bachelor no. 2.

Let's call him...... Mike from now on.

I'm not sure if it's considered a date, because it was our first meet and there was nothing romantic or sexually suggestive throughout the whole thing. But to me, it qualifies as one because we met on a dating app, and I think 2 guys wouldn't just have dinner and catch a movie together right if there was no interest?

Anyway, I had a good time. I was nervous before, but once we sat down and ordered our food the conversation went comfortably. Mike had a developing sore throat so the poor guy had to stick with porridge haha. I was really impressed with his maturity and command in the English language. Guys who speak broken English are a super turn off. This guy was so amazing he said some words which even I did not know the meaning to, so I felt slightly inadequate haha! :P

Mike's maturity is obvious. I'm about to graduate so he gave me some advice on job application and the way he talked about work and hobbies, you can tell this guy has his feet firmly on the ground and knows what he's saying. Thank goodness he didn't come across as old. Despite the mature thinking, he had a decent sense of humour and we had some laughs hahaha. I just hope I didn't come across as too green to him.

Physically he looked like his profile pic, so no surprises. Quite good looking, slightly cute look therefore he looked like my age even though he's 10 years my senior. The only issue I had was that he was shorter than me by maybe a couple of cm. I didn't think height was going to be an issue, but standing next to him I didn't get that sense of..... security. In my mind I would date a tall guy, and definitely buffer than me.

Mike is a gentleman. He insisted on paying for dinner, and also paid for the movie tickets because there was this buy 1 free 1 promo for his credit card. I offered to pay for dinner, but he refused haha, so I said I would 'belanja makan' when I get my first pay. But to be honest, it felt awesome to have someone treat me to dinner and movie.
 
The movie was Cabin in the Woods. The most unpredictable storyline of ALL TIME. Seriously it's so outrageous that it's ridiculous. But we enjoyed it because we're both fans of horror. He was covering his ears from the sudden loud noises, and I was covering my eyes half of the time LOL. But there is a thrill to horror movies that you just don't get elsewhere.

After reaching home, he actually whatsapp me to make sure I was safe at home :)
So sweet right!!!!!!!!! I'm not sure whether I like him that way or not. But it's definitely nice being with him. And he hasn't made any signs of sexual interest. Maybe he's going for the whole gentleman act. I will wait for the stripes to come out!

This whole week I have been busy with assignments so we didn't chat much. He's going to take part in the Bersih rally tomorrow so I hope everything will be fine!

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15 comments:

  1. is his name fiserm ? and what course are u taking ?

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    1. Haha no, not fiserm :P

      I'm in the Science field... if u wanna know more in detail pm me ;)

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  2. like me, sex only after 100th day..

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    1. in your world, each day isn't 24 hours right? 100 days and you.. hard to believe

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    2. hahahahahaha Aiden I know right! 100 days seem too long....
      That's like more than 3 months >.<

      Not sure if I can stay a saint for that long hahaha

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  3. Aww he's such a gentleman. For now. Like you said, let's wait and see. But I hope he turns out to be a good person. Maybe in the long run, you might start to like him (:

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    1. I think he is one of those good ones.

      But to be honest.. the sexual attraction isn't really strong for me... maybe I'm more into the bad boys? :P

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  4. Nice write up. Glad to know the meetup ended on a positive note. Guess there'll be more "dates" with Mike in future. =)

    As for sex, I guess when both are ready, it'll happen, eventually, whether it's after x-number of dates or x-number of days.

    Btw, good movie choice. Cabin in the Woods is one good movie. Love the twist and unpredictable (sort of) plot =)

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    1. Yeah never saw a movie quite like that.. and yup when the time comes for some boom boom bang bang it will just come ;)

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  5. oh oh, good news for the second pick =D secretly, i was hoping that it wont be good news so that ur blog wont turn into all bout diabetically sweet post like some bloggers *cough cough* hahahahaha =P joking only xD

    hope u continue to have a good time with him and develop into something stable :)

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    1. hahahahahaha don't worry I have a limited sugar tolerance myself!!

      there's definitely a limit to how mushy I can get :P

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