Nope, I haven't seen him since we first talked on Friday. But thanks to my refined cyber searching skills I was somehow able to track down his Facebook profile even without a surname. It required google mapping certain places that he talked about, and linking locations to certain pages then to names etc. Haha next time if you guys need help doing cyber snooping, I may be able to help out LOL.
Long story short, HE IS STRAIGHT. There were public albums of him with his gf, though dated 2009, still means he is not playing for our team. And what pisses me off the most is that his profile is so GAY... with all the fancy haircut and ear ring and camwhoring pics. It's official... he is one of those urban, trying to be hip metrosexuals... maybe he thinks he can get more chicks by polishing himself up like that.
Honestly, I was upset for a while.. not at him really, but more at myself for once again falling for a straight guy. What is wrong with me and my gaydar? But I blame the metrosexuals. They make it so much harder to distinguish the gays from the straights. Seriously if you guys see him at the gym in his tank top, fancy shoes and cute looks with smooth and fair skin, you would instantly think he's PLU. He probably does facials more than me.
But I'm OK now. Don't worry I already warned myself earlier that this is just a crush. Thank goodness I discovered the truth before I fall much deeper for him. The moment I realized he's straight, just the thought of him kissing a girl turns me OFF instantly. Oh well, at least we can still be friends, still got a gym buddy I guess. LOL.
And thank you guys for your well wishes in the previous post!! It may not be a happy ending now, but I'm gonna bounce back stronger for sure :)
This song is dedicated to all my fellow bloggers and readers who have ever fell for a straight guy who acts so gay. May these metros hang themselves in their H&M scarfs!!! LOL
Aiks ! Well, he wants to be friend with you, then I think it's time for him to put in the effort.
ReplyDeleteAt least at the end of the day, you've gained a new friend by making the first move.
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icic , btw , chen xing cute la u ....and jboy also cute
ReplyDeleteHey! He could be bi curious.. My friend had 4 ex-girlfriends and he is gay.. lol
ReplyDeleteya ya....he might be lost or just being delusional towards his true self? :P
ReplyDeleteooi2009, you're cuter.
ReplyDeleteHope this is a good lesson for you and you will be wise enough not to fall for the same trap again.
ReplyDeleteugh! Damn those metrosexuals! ><
ReplyDelete@CX: yeah either way i gained something by talking to him.
ReplyDelete@ooi: haha i don't think you've met either of us. How you know we cute? hehehe :P
@CK and Alex: Actually i'm quite sure he's straight now. That kinda makes me lose interest in pursuing him...
@Calvin: haha have you met Ooi?? he cute also? :P
@Piko-chan: Yeah definitely learned that I cannot just develop feelings for strangers.. even if he's plu, chances are he's not interested in me also :/
@Aiden: I know rite!!! Wanna punch them in the face lol
the gf could be just a cover up and is his faghag. Not everything we see on fb is as it is. just an opinion anyway...
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